Thursday, 26 July 2012

Jealousy: The Extra Baggage that you can live without



 Jealousy is a terrible tormentor, that keeps you wishing you are the other person, and aspiring to have that which is out of your reach. It deceives you into believing that the “Oranges” inside your neighbours’ orchard, are better than the “Apples” inside your own estate.

Jealousy is so wicked that it blinds its victims of the true worth of their multiple achievements. It has such a terrible power that diminishes the value of the achievement of the host, while increasing the value or worth of the outside attraction. The syndrome of Jealousy says, that the best is always outside. The property inside is never as attractive or valuable as the one outside. No wonder, God warns us of covetousness in Exodus 20 v 17

To the jealous, the other man’s wife is always more attractive. The jealous mind is always covetous. Being covetous implies trying to posses what belongs to another person. To them, other people’s children are always more handsome, beautiful, attractive. intelligent and appealing. Their courses in school are always better. Their dressing is always more attractive.

To them, the figure outside attracts more attention. The outsider is the one that gets noticed, hence the ingredients of equity are rumour mongering, character assassination, gossip, wickedness, etc. Jealousy is a congregational entity. She does not work alone-see. Psalm 1 v 1f. In her pay roll are rumour mongering, character assassination, gossiping, evil scheming, lies, and even murder.

Jealousy is as much a wicked master as she is an inglorious servant. When jealousy takes over as a master, she keeps the host under eternal servitude. She does not only handcuff her victims, but leg chains them as well. The reason is not far fetched. He or she who delights not in counting his or her blessings, will never run out of the currency of taking stock of his or her loses and curses. What ever we glorify multiplies. Whatever we give much attention to, expands with amazing rapidity.
The Value of Freedom From And Danger Of Imprisonment To Jealousy: He or she who is independent of the control of jealousy may not know or fully appreciate the magnitude of his/her common wealth. When you are not a patient of jealousy, you enjoy good health that makes your contemporaries wonder at the source of your physical health and mental wellbeing.

The one who is a slave to jealousy, begins by being proud of this terrible state of servitude. He ends up, cursing the day that brought about this terrible contract. The jealous man or woman, spends his or her life brooding over loses and have little or no time celebrating his or her gains. The more one maintains the insatiable, virus of jealousy, the more she demands greater maintenance. Like the grave, jealousy is never fulfilled. No wonder, Herod the Great, who controlled men and country, murdered innocent infants, because he thought that the new born Messiah would make his kingdom irrelevant. (Matt 2v16)
Jealousy is like cancer. It starts as a harmless spot, advances as a part time spoiler and ends up as a comprehensive destroyer. When Absolom caught the bug, he sought to destroy his father king David and his kingdom. Finally, the same ladder that helped him rise, became the scaffold for his personal destruction (2Sam, 18v9).

Ironically, it is easier for people to serve jealousy than for them to disobey the call to her short term attractive, but long term inglorious service. Jealousy holds captive both kings and subjects, slave and free, black and white, men and women, children and adults. Its cells are full of captives of both the low and the mighty. Its nature is such that it’s entry requirement are very minimal, while the exit demands are near impossible. Those who are her victims, mourn at how easy it was for them to be recruited, and how difficult and almost practically impossible it is for them to escape from the domain or be demobilized from jealousy’s employment.
King Saul And Jealousy: When king Saul was employed by jealousy, against David, who had saved his kingdom from the ravaging forces of Goliath and the Philistines, he could not withdraw his services, no matter how much he tried. He finally perished in this pursuit (1Sam31) Jealousy is very attractive, but one terrible fact hidden from the face of the protagonists or practitioners, is that it hardly releases it’s victims. Hence, when the Bible asserts that the devil cometh to kill, to steal and to destroy, (John 10v10a), it is jealousy that is the principal instrument in the planning and execution of such matters.

Jealousy got a man to buy admission into a strange academic area, for the child. By the time the reality of the academic demand was fully appreciated, this child crashed out of school. Jealous always impresses you on the need to have the other persons carton of blessing, portraying such as being better than your own portfolio of charismatic gifts.

If you take a closer look as a school teacher for example, you may see very many good reasons why you need not be envious of a doctor or jealous of a lawyer. At the centre of excellence is your appreciation of the fact that it is only you that can be you. The next one is only a second best. Thank God for your uniqueness. Thank Him because you are fearfully and wonderfully made.

Why should I be jealous of the fact that you are very tall, when I know I have a strategic advantage of being shorter than my taller, neighbour. My friend who is very fair in complexion, must no doubt, be missing my ebony touch. I need to appreciate how much God has saved me from being that Professor in my Church, or that lawyer in my street, making me the business man that I am etc.
How Do I Depart From the Domain of Jealousy
I will appreciate what I have, more and esteem what I do not have, less. I will pay more attention to my gains than on my loses. I will appreciate the endowment of the other person, but will not covert it in any way. I will delete altars of insatiable desires and erect temples of irreversible satisfaction. I will thank God for His blessings upon my neighbour, rather than be envious of His endowment upon him. I will endeavour to recognize my uniqueness, appreciate my peculiar gifts, develop them and proudly use them for the good of humanity and to the glory of God. I will always remember the 10th commandment and strive to live by it and others (Ex 20v17)

Solomon writes that, “love is as strong as death, its jealousy unyielding as grave”. (Song of songs 8:7). Let us embrace love and discountenance jealousy. Let us rid our selves of Jealousy. What God can not handle can not happen. Have a very great week. Jesus Christ is the LORD.

Rev. Venerable Joe Eziaghighala  wrote from Lagos Nigeria and is from the Diocese Of Lagos Mainland[Anglican COMMUNION]

Friday, 29 June 2012

Why power must shift to South East after Jonathan


A FAIR and equitable Nigeria governed by truth and justice calls for presidential power shift to South East Region after the completion of Goodluck Jonathan’s term either in 2015 or 2019 as the case may be.
Ndigbo are not slaves or third class citizens to be rendered impotent in the political equation by those who claim to have won an unjust war that should not have been fought in the first place. All the regions have taken turns in producing presidents that occupied the centre for prolonged periods.
Northern regions (North East – 5 years +; North West -15 years and North Central -18 years) have ruled Nigeria for 38 years; and Southern regions (South West -11 years+; South South – two years and South East – six months) for 13 years. Under the six geo-political zones, four zones have had power for more than five years each, South East the least with six months. Nnamdi Azikiwe was a president, but he was not head of government – he did not form a federal cabinet. Azikiwe was only a ceremonial president. Tafawa Balewa was prime minister and head of government; he formed the federal cabinet.
By 2015 after Jonathan completes one term of office, each geo-political zone with the exception of South East would have ruled Nigeria for at least five years. Equity and fairness call for the South East to take its turn after President Jonathan. After South East presidency, Nigeria can then decide whether or not to discard zoning and rotational presidency.
Nigerian president of South East extraction is a matter of “truth and justice” and not of concession. Nigeria needs a president of Igbo extraction to help stabilize the country from its falter and in addition foster development. An Igbo president will see the entire nation as his homeland, since Igbos are in every nook and corner of the country. Such a president would evenly distribute developmental projects in the country. This means that if water runs in Umuahia, it must also run in Lagos and Kano.
I humbly, as our father, Dim Chukwuemeka Odumegwu Ojukwu, did several times before he passed unto Glory, make these passionate pleas:
•That Igbo should, and as a matter of survival and living, must come, once again and forever, together in the spirit of Ahiara declaration, assert our basic rights in Nigeria.
•That the Igbo take it upon us, from this very blessed and memorable day, to champion for Igbo presidency in Nigeria come 2015 or 2019 as the case may be with Jonathan’s full term.
•That our leaders – in their different capacities – do whatever it takes, in the spirit of true federalism, to prevail upon our friends and neighbours from other tribes and ethnic groups within Nigeria on the need for an Igbo presidency after Jonathan. We, as Igbo nation, have severally, in the past, stood behind and seen to the successes of peoples from other tribes and ethnicities in Nigeria for the post of the presidency – a post no Igbo has occupied since we lost in a “no victor no vanquished” war.
•That to achieve this, every other matter and reason for disparity and disagreements amongst us should and must be relegated to the background and all efforts, wisdom, knowledge, understanding, resources and time be channeled towards communicating with, educating, and reaching agreements with our people in their different positions and beliefs in Nigeria.
•That, this time, as a nation united unto eternity, we must speak with a voice to the rest of Nigerians of the need, justice and inevitability of accepting and having an Igbo presidency. Subjugation is not our inheritance and the spirit of slavery in times of great freedom is strange to us.
•That every politics we play henceforth, no matter the party, be rooted in the conviction and steps towards producing an Igbo presidency after Jonathan.
•That, in all wisdom, looking at the prevailing party in Nigeria today, and its zoning methods which have always robbed us of our rights to the presidency since the war ended, it has now become pertinent and expedient to consider coming together and joining talents and resources in a party which agrees to true federalism and which supports, unconditionally, an Igbo presidency.
•That, unlike decades gone, we should make it clearly understood by all and sundry in Nigeria that the rejection of an Igbo presidency would amount to Nigeria’s unfeeling of the Igbo pains and marginalization for over half a century. And making it clear that, should Nigeria and the elite who have and always would want an incapacitated Igbo in Nigeria, remain adamant on denying us our God-given rights in Nigeria, the only alternative left to us may be to lead our people out of a nation where we have remained rejected, robbed, marginalized and killed- despite our unrivaled competence and contributions towards a better Nigeria.
Written by  Charles Okereke, Publisher, Nigeria Masterweb as published in the Vanguard Newspapers Nigeria.

Saturday, 23 June 2012

A Man Without Fear By Sonala Olumhense


A lot of Nigerians were disgusted last week when they were told that Mr. Goodluck Jonathan had left for Brazil. I was not one of them. Did you see his departure photos? To his left as he strode to the presidential jet was his wife, Nigeria’s most powerful woman for five years. That was a strong punch for those who consider Jonathan a “dull” man: out on a business trip, and he took his madam with him. That is not the move of a dullard; that is the move of a master. Right there, as he headed for the safety, the beauty and the beachfronts of Brazil, he ensured that the First Family was safe. Was it the right time to travel? Let us think about just this month alone and you will agree this man needed a holiday. June had barely dawned when that awful Dana jet crash happened, remember? Someone important was needed to cry in public and whom did we call? You got that right: Mr. Jonathan. The Aso Rock Warrior was the one we dragged to the poverty and the grief of Iju-Ishaga. We gave him a handkerchief and he obliged the entire country by weeping into the cameras. Since then, we have set up other scenarios and other cameras, and he has obliged us by weeping for the people of Kaduna, and then the people of Zaria and then the people of Yobe. Last weekend, I hear the church pastor simply passed a microphone to Mr. Jonathan and asked him to speak about the disaster in Kaduna. The president wept! That was just Sunday. And the situation was so bad that Kaduna State Governor Patrick Yakowa declared a 24-hour emergency. Kaduna, now synonymous with insecurity and violence; now infamous for the slaughtering of the innocent as they gather to worship, now a byword for Muslim cowards disguised as militants to murder the unarmed and the peaceful; now a symbol of Nigeria’s descent towards hell. Kaduna, where peace returned for a few ticks of the clock. That lured the embattled governor to relax the emergency by a few hours, only for that to become the opportunity for fierce reprisal attacks and counter-reprisals on a religious basis. The governor slapped the 24-hour emergency back on. And all of that was within a space of two weeks in June. But it was also while that was going on, remember, that one organization announced that it has information that Boko Haram is getting ready to bomb Ibadan and Lagos. It was during the same period that members of the National Youth Service Corps, where there were still such people in parts of the North, were begging for protection, and to be allowed to go home. Knowing what we now know, during that same time the United States must have been informing Mr. Jonathan of its intention to declare Boko Haram a terrorist organization, or at least to brand some of its leaders as terrorists. I have to presume that Mr. Jonathan receives daily security briefings from relevant officials. If so, his briefings since the First of June must have quite strident. Remember, this is the month that Mr. Jonathan promised to vanquish Boko Haram, which would suggest that he knows what he is doing. In other words, while the Jonathans were looking at a map of Brazil, the more important map was really of Nigeria, where ethnic, religious, ethical and political fissures are now alarming. What does a current map of Nigeria show? A country frozen by religious extremism marching westwards and southwards from the North-east; a country frozen by decreasing economic activity occasioned by corruption, lack of electricity, and fear; and a country frozen by poor leadership. I think that is why Mr. Jonathan, who once admitted his administrative naiveté, left the country last week. The man had had enough, as there is nothing on his resume to indicate genuine motivation or commitment. This is why it may suddenly be clear, to most Nigerians, exactly whom President Jonathan listens to. Last week was not a week to listen to anyone who advised staying on the job in Nigeria, wisely sending off to Brazil, the Vice-President: the same advice we once offered to Umaru Yar’Adua in favour of Mr. Jonathan. Regrettably, last week was one in which to listen to praise-singers who tell him how lucky he is; that he can do no wrong and nobody can take the presidency from him; that he can budget the national budget for his own kitchen and fly the skies unafraid when his countrymen are falling out of the skies in rickety and unsupervised aircraft; those who tell him to feel free to fly to any destination of his desire because he can rule from there. Six months ago, Mr. Jonathan faced his first crisis when he abruptly inflated fuel prices claiming he was withdrawing a fuel subsidy. Even he knows that the only thing that was being subsidized was corruption at the highest levels, but he has not done anything about it. As part of his response to the strikes that ensued, Mr. Jonathan said he would reduce the size and cost of government. He has not honoured that pledge; his government is unrepentant and last week he travelled with a contemptuous and bloated delegation of 116. His government also said at that time it was providing 1500 buses to ease the burden of transportation on Nigerians; I know nobody who has seen a single one of them. What this means is that there is a context to Mr. Jonathan’s flight from Nigeria last week: the question of credibility. The actual question being asked last week was not why Mr. Jonathan should travel abroad but whether he is taking Nigeria’s problems seriously. It is significant that as soon as he left our shores, Vice-President Namadi Sambo and the elite security chiefs held a high level meeting, apparently one Mr. Jonathan did not think important enough to hold before his departure. The conundrum is whether Mr. Jonathan does not know what to do, or does not care enough. I think it is both. It is startling that the highest meeting on security in the land would hold in his absence, at a time of the highest challenge to security and the unity of Nigeria, in the month of his greatest challenge. Equally remarkable, during the same trip, he got Owoeye Azazi, the National Security Adviser, fired. He obviously did not want to have to tell Mr. Azazi by himself. He has yet to fire any of his many corrupt Ministers. I think Mr. Jonathan fails to understand that while leadership offers tremendous power, it is no vacation. Leadership is a responsibility that, when deployed with wisdom, character and commitment, ennobles and elevates a people and rewards the leader; but used with manipulation and shallow-mindedness, can catapult the leader to shame and oblivion. General Sani Abacha and Mr. Jonathan’s successor offer easy examples. Now, can Jonathan rule from anywhere, Minister Labaran Maku? Of course. But first, he can do so only if he was ruling in the first place. Mr. Jonathan seems to conceive of himself only as an actor: playing the part of a man who is pretending to be in charge. The final question, then, is whether Mr. Jonathan can lead from anywhere, the most important question Minister Maku did not raise. The answer is that you cannot lead from an aircraft, a teleprompter, a laptop or from another man’s country, if you never led in the first place, or if you are only an actor who plays a leader. Ours is a nation in fear and on the brink. What we need is a hands-on leader who is afraid of neither man nor Time. Mr. Jonathan seems to tremble before them all. • sonala.olumhense@gmail.com Source: Sahara Reporters

NPL: Southern teams playing under pressure -Anyansi

NPL: Southern teams playing under pressure -Anyan Anyansi By: MADUABUCHI KALU Date: Sat, 06/23/2012 - 20:59 Chairman of Enyimba International Football Club of Aba, Chief Felix Anyansi Agwu, has expressed concern over the worsening security situation in the country particularly in the northern part of the country. According to the board member of Nigeria Football Federation (NFF), there is the need for security to be improved in the country as insecurity is having adverse effect in every facet of our national life particularly football. He said due to the deplorable security situation in the country particularly in the north, southern teams are now playing their matches under intense pressure as they are always playing their matches in north with apprehension and as a result can't concentrate while performing their legitimate duties on the field. Said he :“Well, I would like to say that Southern teams in the Nigeria Premier League (NPL) are playing under pressure due to the security situation in the country. As I speak with you, there is much pressure on southern teams whenever they are playing matches in the north due to the deplorable security situation in the country.” “It is obvious that southern teams due this security concerns, hardly give their best because of lack of concentration as the players' attention is divided between the work at hand and the issue of security.” Speaking further, the Abia State-born football administrator called on the NPL to ensure that there is improved security in stadiums across the country, so that teams would be rest assured that there is no cause for them to entertain fears while on the field of play. “In view of the security situation in the country I would like to use this opportunity to call on the Nigeria Premier League (NPL), to ensure that security is improved in all stadiums across the country, as it will go a long in ensuring that players give their best for their teams”, he said. Culled from The Sun Newspapers Nigeria.

Monday, 18 June 2012

Akinwale: Naming and renaming

ON May 29, 1999, terminal date of 16 years of military rule inaugurated by the December 31, 1983 coup that brought in Muhammadu Buhari, it was thanks to a generator that I was able to watch the inauguration of Olusegun Obasanjo as President of Nigeria. On May 29, 2003, I watched his inauguration for a second term, thanks to a generator. On May 29, 2007, I watched the inauguration of Umar Yar’Adua, thanks to a generator. On May 29, 2011, I watched the inauguration of Goodluck Jonathan, thanks to a generator. And on May 29, 2012, I watched his nationally televised speech marking Democracy Day, thanks to a generator. Yet in that speech, President Jonathan not only told his audience that Nigeria was getting better, he challenged the commitment of Nigerians to democratic ideals by the timing and modality of his announcement that he was changing the name of the University of Lagos. Recall that during the Abacha era, Walter Carrington, American Ambassador to Nigeria, was outstanding in his support for the pro-democracy movement in Nigeria. When the military left, Bola Tinubu, one of the leading lights of the pro-democracy movement, became Governor of Lagos State. To honour Carrington, he changed the name of the street on which the American Consulate is located from Eleke Crescent to Walter Carrington Crescent. He did not seek the consent of anyone. He acted by executive fiat. We ought to have protested. We did not. Recall that in the city of New York, the name of a street in the neighbourhood where the Nigerian consulate is located was to be changed to Kudirat Abiola Corner. The Mayor of New York City did not just go ahead, he sought the consent of the owners of the city, the people of New York. There, the understanding of the relationship between the city, the citizens, and elected officials of the city is different from what obtains here in Nigeria. In a true democracy, leaders know that they neither own the land nor own its people. They would therefore not act without the consent of the people. Here, Nigerian political office holders act like they own the land and its people. And, since they owned the land and its people they can do anything to both. Who owns the University of Lagos? The answer: the Federal Government of Nigeria. But who owns the government? Answer: if indeed we live in a democracy, the people own the government, and, by extension, own the university. But if the people do not own the government then the government fails to meet the defining criterion of democracy, which is government of the people for the people and by the people. Since our political office holders believe that government owns the land and its people, they can change anything that belongs to the people any time. So, on October 1, 1978, the military junta led by General Obasanjo changed the Nigerian national anthem since independence, “Nigeria, we hail thee”, to “Arise, O compatriots”. Nigerians were not asked if they wanted the anthem changed. Their views did not matter. It was under military rule. And that was two years after the Lagos Airport was renamed Murtala Muhammed International Airport. Some other major roads, monuments and landmarks were either renamed after him or after Col. Ibrahim Taiwo, Military Governor of Kwara State, who was assassinated during the abortive coup in which Muhammed was assassinated. There are more examples. In 1987, when Obafemi Awolowo died, the military junta led by Gen. Ibrahim Babangida changed the name of the University of Ife to Obafemi Awolowo University. Nigerians were not consulted. In 1996, when Nnamdi Azikiwe, Nigeria’s first indigenous Governor-General and first President died, the Abuja International Airport was named after him. There was no prior consultation of the people. No one protested. It was during military rule. Now, we are supposed to be living in a democratic dispensation. But during the first four years of return to democratic rule, there were governors who named and renamed monuments and landmarks in their states according to their whims and caprices. Names used could either belong to the governor or to his father or mother, or to his spouse. Not too long ago, President Goodluck Jonathan changed the name of the Liberty Stadium in Ibadan, built while Awolowo was premier of the old Western Region, to Obafemi Awolowo Stadium. The stadium has not hosted a football match for years. Its dilapidated state is less than a shadow of what the Awolowo administration built. That stadium hosted the replay of the 1972 Challenge Cup final played between Bendel Insurance and Mighty Jets of Jos. It hosted Group B matches of the soccer event of the 2nd All Africa Games of January 1973. It hosted the Group B matches of the 1980 Africa Cup of Nations. It also hosted some group matches of the 1999 Under-20 World Cup. Rather than renovate the stadium, which would have honoured Awolowo, it was renamed. This time, it happened in a democracy. Yet, there was no consultation, no discussion, and no protest. These examples provide the context for commenting on the change of name of the University of Lagos to Moshood Abiola University. No one would doubt that Abiola laid down his life for democracy to thrive in Nigeria. When we sing in our national anthem, “the labours of our heroes past shall never be in vain”, such words apply to him. He eminently qualifies to be called a hero. And a people that fail to recognise its heroes will never accomplish anything heroic. President Jonathan wisely recognised this fact when he said in his address to Nigerians: “The greatest tribute that we can pay to him, and other departed heroes of Nigeria’s democracy, is to ensure that we continue to sustain and consolidate our democratic institutions and processes...” With these words, there is no great risk of contradiction in asserting that he most probably acted in good faith when he renamed the University of Lagos after Moshood Abiola. Yet, the modality and timing of this renaming show us clearly that on the very day we were supposed to be celebrating democracy, we were acting in a way that is antithetical to the values of democracy. It is even more disturbing that the change of name was announced while the University of Lagos was mourning, in fact, at a time it was getting ready to bury its highly esteemed Vice Chancellor, Prof. Shofoluwe. Democracy is about representation, consultation and accountability in conversation. In concrete terms, the people elect one of their own into office to represent them in government. As their representative, he or she must be in constant consultation with the people so as to feel their political pulse and know what they think on any issue of governance. The political office holder must constantly give an account of his stewardship as people’s representative. All this is done by conversing with the people and not by talking down on the people. And where the people show their discontent because this process is observed in the breach, it takes a wise political office holder to take back his words. Such action does not amount to weakness. To be heading for the wrong direction while you insist that you are not going back is not a sign of wisdom, and whatever is not a sign of wisdom is not a sign of strength even when it is a sign of power. Humility is strength. The greatest tribute that the present class of political office holders can pay to heroes of our democracy is to respect democratic values and the people who voted them into office. That Abiola’s victory at the June 12, 1993 presidential elections was annulled was an act of utmost disrespect for the people of Nigeria. That a foremost university was renamed after Abiola 14 years after his martyrdom without appropriate consultation, and in utter disregard for the Act of Parliament that established the university, insults the people. Such an act pays no tribute to the memory of a man who laid down his life so that a government of the people for the people and by the people might thrive in Nigeria. As published by Anthony Akinwale in The Guardian newspaper Nigeria of the 18 June, 2012. • Father Akinwale teaches Systematic Theology and Thomistic Philosophy at the Dominican Institute, Ibadan.

Friday, 11 May 2012

Boko-Haram :The attendant evils that may follow

In the last few years Nigeria has been consumed by the nefarious activities allegedly masterminded by an extremist sect Boko-Haram(Literally meaning Against Western Education) based in the Northern part of Nigeria.Going by the meaning of their name Nigeria should never have been attacked from this sect, owing to the fact that Nigeria is not a western state nor an advocate of westernization. Nigeria is an independent state working towards its development and survival amongst the nations. The constant killings and mayhem of ordinary Nigeria citizens, the attacks on Churches and most recently the attack on media houses lent weight to a serious thinking on the actual motive of this dangerous sect. What is really the motive behind these killings, destruction, indiscriminate bombings and incessant attacks on Churches in the North by Boko-Haram? Is it just to stop the so called western civilization?, is it to introduce Sharia to the whole nation?,or do they want all Christians to leave the North?. What exactly do they want to achieve that they have devised these deadly vices on their fellow Nigerians. Wait a minute, are they really Nigerians?, are you sure that a Nigerian can carry out these bastardy acts on fellow Nigerians? Well the truth is that whatever stands on their way while executing their gruesome activities shall be removed and be seen as obstacles regardless of who you are. Recently they have killed their own men whom they see as saboteurs. To this kind of men on the loose, they deserve not to be confronted with modern tools of compromise(Dialogue). The only language they understand is force and superior intelligence. The Federal Government of Nigeria has been told by so many Nigerians to inter dialogue with them. Many also have faulted this line of thought and opined that it would rather fuel their confidence and energize them to cause more mayhem. One school of thought that is constantly becoming stronger by the day is the fact that Boko- Haram may not be what they say they are after all. I think they have fooled us enough. I believe strongly that this sect has more rusty political undertone than we had earlier imagined. This might be the reason why intelligence from certain quarters is of the opinion that they are heavily funded by some highly placed individuals in the Nigerian polity. If these sources of intelligence are confirmed to be true, security operative must move immediately to clamp down on these inglorious fund suppliers before it is too late. The way things are going,they are very fast indeed,the thought of disturbance to destabilize the nation and seize some areas in the North and make it rebel haven is not far fetched. The fact that southern traders in the North are living every minute of their lives in fear and the seemingly disfranchisement of non-Muslims to freely carry out their business is becoming a real concern and the resultant consequence is heart warming for the Boko- Harams. What is happening in Mali now is a clear example, Boko-Haram may not be interested in introducing sharia to all and sundry or governing anybody but their prime motive ultimately,is just to grab a sizable part of Nigeria and make it an al-Qaeda and terrorist zone. If this happens Nigeria is doomed. The easiest way to do it to pretend that they are defending the Islamic faith and attract attention by attacking churches and making it look like a move to restore originality and Islamization of the North. The truth is that nobody would be fooled again by their hidden agenda and evil disposition. I think the government of Nigeria and all security forces and not forgetting the Arewa community should unanimously fight ruthlessly against this evil canker worms that want to create bad name to our beloved nation Nigeria, drastically threatening the foundation of unity and religious harmony that we all enjoy in Nigeria. This is our chance and every minute intelligence must be utilized strategically.Enough is enough.Boko-Haram must be stopped now. An excerpt of a paper delivered by Patrick Ebuzor to a group of concerned Nigerians in NEW York City recently.

Tuesday, 24 April 2012

Nigeria in Serious Crisis; Who’s really In-Charge? (Part 2) – by Dr Kingston Ekeke

This is part 2 of the article written by Dr. Kingston Ekeke on the affairs of the nation Nigeria as published by The African Herald Express. We at Nigerians React thought the article was interesting to share. - Why Dr. Mrs. Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala was not elected World Bank President – I applaud the courage of Dr. Mrs. Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala to vie for World Bank presidency. However, with all due respect, Nigeria/Africa did not make history. She tried. I applaud her and your courage. Frankly, this is a wake-up call for Africa. The selection of Korean, Dr. Jim Yong Kim, and a Harvard trained medical doctor over a Nigerian, Dr. (Mrs.) Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala, a Harvard and MIT trained Economist, as its 12th President of the World Bank Group is a clear message to Africa. Despite Dr. Kim’s impressive educational portfolio and impeccable professional achievement in medical field, I still think his appointment is purely a political decision rather than professionalism and merit. In-addition to Dr. Okonjo-Iweala’s impeccable educational qualification, she had worked off and on for about 20 years at World Bank as Secretary and Director. It’s just awkward that a Medical Doctor rather than an Economist and Finance expert will be heading the global financial institution like World Bank. The U.S. and the Western nations don’t care about Africa – period. Do I blame them! It’s interesting that while the contest to head the World Bank was going on, military coups are taking place in Africa – Mali, Guinea Bissau and then Boko Haram Jihadists were murdering people daily in Nigeria – in-addition to various scandals and scams like Ibori’s looting, Police pension scam, fuel subsidy scam, and various bribery schemes and corruption by politicians, government officials and civil servants. Who wants to give anyone from Africa such global honor and responsibility, no matter how qualified that person may be, to head such a reputable global financial institution with all the nonsense going-on in the continent. African rulers will have to work hard to clean-up their mess – such as fight poor leadership, corruption, reduce poverty, disease and illiteracy, improve on human rights, and then invest in their people and build infrastructure. I must also give credit to the Koreans – specifically South Korea. Their two sons are now leading the two respectable world organizations – United Nations and World Bank. Ban Ki-moon (the 8th Secretary-General of the United Nations) and Dr. Jim Yong Kim (the 12th President of the World Bank Group). South Korea bounced back after a brutal war between them and their neighbor, North Korea, rebuilt their infrastructure and invested heavily in their people. Today, South Korea is one of the Asian Tigers while North Korea is wasting their energy developing nuclear weapons and starving their citizens of food and global participation. Shame on them! Having said that, Dr. Mrs. Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala represents the economic interest of the IMF and World Bank. Her economic policies in the past reflect that. Her economic policies in the previous administrations have never worked well in a culturally diverse minded people and developing nation like Nigeria – NEEDS, SEEDS and FUEL SUBSIDY REMOVAL are just those examples of her IMF/World bank economic programs that never worked. SAP was another IMF/World Bank package designed to bastardize Nigeria’s currency and destroy the nation’s economy and monetary system, which was embraced by IBB and his economic team. They fiercely sold it to poor Nigerians and look at where we are today. Today, it’s fuel subsidy removal. Mrs. Okonjo-Iweala has not explained to Nigerians how she plans to re-invest the subsidy savings and guarantee to Nigerian people that the prices of fuel, kerosene and other petroleum resources will remain the same after the subsidy is removed – if not, how will the common folks living on less than $2 per day survive. Once again, I think that Nigeria’s economic and monetary policies should be approached from a cultural, social, and psychological mind-set of the Nigerian people not from Western mindset or to benefit Western capitalism. By the way, the Sovereign Wealth Fund is one of those deceptive strategies to embezzle and loot. There are other ways within the Federal system to save for future generations – Federation Account, Foreign Reserves, etc. The justification for SWF is just fictitious and capricious. Fiscal Federalism, Resource Control and Poverty in the North – I believe that we cannot have an equitable society until we reform our current system of government. We must design a system that is deeply rooted in our diverse culture, religion, way of thinking and doing things. I don’t know what that system should be called – but even if you call it democracy, it should be fashioned to reflect our collective experiences as Nigerians. It is insane to borrow Western democracy and try to implement in Nigeria – or Africa. Unfortunately, Nigeria was bequeathed with a colonial system of government that’s corrupt and tribalistic. Since independence, Nigeria has had various systems of government – unitary, parliamentary, military and now democratic presidential system, yet without any political peace or progress. Borrowing from the erudite scholar and Nigeria’s former permanent representative to UN, Dr. Joseph Nanyen Garba, “In our fifty-one years of nationhood, we have made an unprecedented turnaround; going from a nation of hope, strength, abundance, economic prosperity and high aspirations to a nation which has become the embodiment of a degenerate society.” Since independence Nigeria has been governed by a group of greedy, egoistic, and visionless political leaders and military rulers. Despite the enormous human potential and abundant natural resources Nigeria is endowed with, she has not enjoyed any genuine political peace and national prosperity. Instead, the country has been ruled and governed by military tyrants and political savages that denied the masses basic necessities of livelihood and governmental provisions such as security, order, peace and in so doing, denied the citizens the yearnings of every human being, which is the inalienable right to life, justice and pursuit of happiness. In a nutshell, Nigeria has always been ruled, governed and led by gangsters – mostly men without honor, character and integrity despite their degrees and educational qualification. Still on Fiscal Federalism, I also think that the socio-economic development should be de-centralized. States and local government should be empowered and allowed to run their economies as well as security like State Police force, etc and pay tax revenues to the federal government. What we have today in our society is a totalitarian statecraft in which power is concentrated in the center and that’s why we have such brazen corruption, incompetence and poor leadership. Concerning revenue sharing formula debate, the 13% oil revenue being given to major oil producing States is actually small. I think the formula should be adjusted to actually pay more to oil producing states – considering the environmental pollution, climate changes that impact on ecosystem and health. Regarding extreme poverty debate in the North, that CBN Governor Sanusi and other Northern leaders are talking about, which has been echoed by international community, including NY Times liberal Professor Jean Herskovits is rather unfortunate. The reason for poverty in the North is not because of oil revenue sharing formula but poor leadership. These apologists of Northern poverty must understand that since Nigeria’s amalgamation, Northerners ruled the nation for forty-something years. They had been in power and did practically nothing but to dole poor and bad leadership to their people and entire nation. The Hausa/Fulani Oligarchy and their hypocritical British empire have consistently used ‘divide-and-rule’ to destroy the Southerners. You talk about poverty in the North, go see marginalization and devastation in Southeast and South-south. For nearly half a century of Nigeria’s independence, the Hausa/Fulani Oligarchy held power and ruled Nigeria with impunity and incompetence. They rubbished Nigeria’s economy and held the people back from progress. Since 1999, power shifted to the South, these power-hungry zealots have re-engaged their religious-political jihadist and murderous sect known as Boko-Haram to maim, destroy, and kill innocent citizens. They are the ones that had doled bad leadership and held their people especially women and young people backwards and continues to do so even today. I admire Dr. Junaid Mohammed’s boldness and courage to condemn the selfish, self-serving and incompetent Northern generals and politicians that ruled the country for nearly a half century without any thing to show for their governance and leadership. They did not only rubbish the North but ruined the entire nation. Boko Haram, Insecurity, National Dialogue, and Nigeria’s Break-up Imminent – Over the last few months and in the past, we have listened and read from eminent Nigerians, scholars and brilliant minds as well as global community saying that Nigeria is a divided nation and suggesting strongly for its division. Those articles, essays, papers, and interviews call into the question the continued unity of Nigeria amid gross injustice, incompetence, monumental corruption, bad leadership, religious divide, ethnic hatred, religious violence and jihad massacres among other things. My question is this, “why are we afraid of dividing the country if we can’t correct the injustices in the federal structure and endeavor to live like one people and as united nation destined to redeem the black race on planet earth. I do not understand why some people wants to hold the variant groups that make Nigeria hostage while its citizens are perishing everyday to poverty, disease, corruption, bad leadership, and Boko-Haram. It beats my imagination that people would be forced to live together even when socially, culturally, linguistically, religiously, politically, economically, and morally, they are so diverse and do not think similarly. Yet in other multi-faceted nations like ours, nations, groups, tribes, etc., are peacefully separating from each other. Even recently, we read that Scotland is divorcing peacefully from Britain without violence or war – just by people’s voice, vote and referendum. Yet, a complicated and multi-faceted nation like ours, we can’t even have a dialogue – called it Sovereign National Conference, National Dialogue or National Discussion. It doesn’t matter. What matters is for all the variant groups that make up the so-called Nigerian State to t sit down and have serious conversation about the future of the nation and her people. Nigeria as currently constituted does not make sense anymore. Its continued cohabitation has become a curse. Men and women of courage must rise-up to do what is right for Nigeria, her people and her destiny. I understand, love and cherish the beauty and power of diversity, but why all these killings and gross injustice against another ethnic group. I think the issue is this, The Hausa/Fulani Oligarchy, Northern Caliphate, Kaduna Mafia and the group of greedy, visionless, and myopic politicians that have held our nation hostage do not want to loose their power and questionable wealth. However, this selfish, self-serving and superficial bunch must understand that the Nigerian experiment fabricated by Britain has failed. This union or marriage between the variant groups has not worked; rather, it has been involved in consistent adultery and persistent lies. It has been an idolatrous relationship and adulterous marriage which has produced many illegitimate children that are angry, frustrated, depressed, and hopeless. This marriage must be divorced because it is lacking trust, genuine love, respect and integrity. Why continue to stay in such a mistrust marriage and union? Even God or Allah will not approve such adulterous marriage and union of death. The Nigeria state is a failed experiment and we the people must decide our destiny now. Why all these arguments against a peaceful division of Nigeria. So far, it has been a union of death. Why continue to co-exist in such animosity and hatred toward each other. The best thing for Hausa/Fulani, Yoruba, and Igbo – is a peaceful division. I don’t understand what the fear is about. Our destiny cannot be dictated by some foreign powers and conspirators. They’re not our God. There is no future in “One Nigeria.” Islam cannot cohabit with Christianity. It has never happen. It didn’t happen in Abraham’s home and it will not happen anywhere in the world. The people must rise up and muster the courage to liberate themselves from this evil and worthless union. Those who continue to believe in “One Nigeria” are basking in euphoria and ignorance. There has never been one true nation. The North does not believe in one Nigeria. The Hausa/Fulani Oligarchy just want to be in control and that’s all. Boko Haram is their modern day religious/political warfare. Have you noticed the sympathy of the Northern leaders toward Boko-Haram? Wipe out Boko Haram, within few years, another jihadist group will be formed. This has always been the story of Islamic fundamentalism in Nigeria. They are always in government and around you. So far, they have accumulated 250 years worth of oil reserves in Kaduna plus their vast solid minerals – even though quite expensive to excavate, however, they are ready to have their Islamic /Sharia State. If the oil resources were located in the North, “One Nigeria “would have been past tense. There is currently no country on the planet like Nigeria – with 50% Muslims and 50% Christian population. Both faith cannot co-exist and has never co-existed. It has never happen anywhere without blood shed and war and will not be a different case in Nigeria. The bloodshed will continue in some form or fashion until this union of death is broken into separate independent states or countries. Those who continue to believe in “One Nigeria” do not have any inkling of the real problem – which is rooted in their religion – Islam to be the religious domination of the world and the quest for Islamic and Sharia State. I blame the British for all this nonsense and mess. It’s such a sad situation for the various ethnicities that make-up the so-called Nigeria today. The Federal government and our security agencies are incapable to curtail the massacres of Boko Haram jihadist’s sect. The Northern leaders on their own part have failed woefully to tame this satanic sect called Boko Haram. In fact, the Northern leaders are part of the problem. Sadly enough, Nigeria is one of the few nations in the world where her citizens live in fear and dread Islamic massacre on daily basis now. It’s sad indeed. Now, the Northerners will have to deal with the decline business activity in their regions. Nigeria is basically at war when people are not free to live where they choose to live. No basis to remain as a united nation. Nigeria is in a serious crisis and state of chaos and confusion and unless some form of strong and decisive leadership is taken, the nation may degenerate into anarchy, war, and break-up. The continued massacres in the North have forced many Southerners – especially many Igbos to return to their home states. Until now, no one has been convicted for the on-going killings in Northern Nigeria by Boko Haram jihadists. All we hear is arrest and escape. The former IGP, Mr. Hafiz Ringim allowed a suspected Boko Haram Christmas Day massacre to escape. Since then, all we hear and read is the superficial arrest or killing of Boko Haram jihadists and the very next day, the same person arrested will murder at another location. This is absolutely nonsense. What sort of people and nation are these? On September 21, 2011, Tishau, supposedly, one of the leaders of Boko-Haram granted an interview to News Agency of Nigeria and said, I quote, “Our aim is to spread Islam all over Nigeria, that is our mission and I want people to understand that our correct name is Jama’atu Ahlis Sunna Lidda’awati wal-Jihad. Those calling our group Boko Haram do so to discredit the group and it ideas.” By the way, Boko-Haram has been saying it for years; they do not want only to Islamize the North but the entire Nigeria, which will be an impossible task anyway However, I wish them to break away from Nigeria. Someone had suggested – Boko Haram republic or Almajiris or even Jama’atu Ahlis Sunna or Lidda’awati wal-Jihad republic. They have a lot of choices here to make what to call their new found republic. I must also say that Boko-Haram may be a useful tool to purge and sanitize the North of corrupt political leaders Just this past week, the leader of Boko Haram sect, Sheik Abubakar Imam Shekau boasted that President Goodluck Jonathan cannot end its insurgency in June as publicly stated. The group also boasted that Nigerian security agencies cannot take them down by June 2012 and vowed that it must destroy Christians and Christianity in Nigeria particularly those killing Muslims in Nigeria and it will also kill all Muslims aiding the arrest and harassment of its members. Then, they made a tape, threatening to shutdown the government in 3 months. Boko Haram has also boasted that nobody can stop them. Even the chief of Army staff, Lieutenant General Azubuike Ihejirika confessed that the army has failed woefully to stop the murderous sect. All we hear and read is that Federal government is negotiating and giving Boko Haram leaders’ money for them to stop their massacres – yet the presidency claims that Boko Haram has infiltrated the government. Despite the underground talks with Boko-Haram, the United States office for African affairs, recently blamed Boko-Haram murderous activities as a result of economic malaise and poverty in the North. This echoes the same thinking and propaganda of New York Times journalist, Prof. Prof. Jean Herskovits, who called Boko Haram, a faceless sect and balmed their murderous activities due to poverty in those Northern States. If that is the case madam professor, the blacks leaving in ghettos in America should pick up arms and start killing white people in the South and elsewhere in the country. What a myopic, irrational thinking and poor rationale. Concerning businesses and properties belonging to Southerners, should Nigeria break-up into pieces, we should follow the pattern used by Senegal or other nations that have divided. In any case, the South will continue to give oil to North. Like Dr. Junaid Mohammed and others, who are already fighting over Abuja, must understand that Abuja was built with oil wealth from SS/SE – including the labor and personnel. Most of the businesses in Abuja today are owned or run by Southerners – mostly Ndi-igbo. Boko Haram – the religious-political-jihadist north is ready to go their separate ways, but the South (SW, SE and SS) are not ready. The South still believes in Nigeria’s unity as one indivisible nation. There is nothing wrong to believe so. I’m optimistic too but doubtful. The long history of gross injustice, incompetent leadership, monumental corruption, ethnic bias and hatred, religious and current jihadist mayhem, etc., cannot and will not promote unity at all. There has to be a new system, a new thinking, an atonement so to speak – revival, reconciliation, redemption, restoration, and resurrection for Nigeria’s unity to stand. I’m cautious to say; that the North may give South the opportunity to go their separate ways in gold platter and the South may not be able to seize the opportunity. That’s my fear. It dreads me that if we fail to seize the opportunity now or correct the injustice in the system, we are doomed forever. Nevertheless, I believe the 2015 U.S. military intelligence report of Nigeria break-up. I’m not sure; we will even get to 2015 anyway. We are only in 2012 and already this kind of viciousness, anger, and outrage are ravaging and polluting the national space. 2015 Presidency and Nigeria’s Risk of One-party Demo-crazy – Three years away from 2015, the political wrangling and rancor between SS, SE and North over 2015 presidency have already begun and heating up the polity. Every major ethnic tribe except SW is threatening with brimstone and fire, yet President Jonathan is only completing his first year and first term in office. Watching and listening to various speakers during the recent PDP convention held in Abuja, where Dr. Bamanga Turkur, surprisingly emerged as the national chairman of PDP, convinces me that Nigeria is currently being ruled by thugs and gangsters. The inability of a formidable opposition party is the reason why Nigeria is in such predicament. I do not understand why the opposition parties, mostly ACN, CPC, ANPP, APGA, and others, irrespective of party philosophy and ideology, since the main goal is to dethrone PDP, cannot come together, unite and form a formidable alliance to flush out PDP from the seat of governance. The opposition parties have failed Nigerians because of their egos and self-importance. For Christ-sake, the various leaders of these mushroom parties must as a matter of urgency, sheathe their egos and self-importance and unite to send PDP packing from office in 2015, otherwise, the prophecy of ex-president Obasanjo will come true. Because of this egoistic tendency and self-importance, what we have today is not democracy but demo-crazy, a thugo-cracy and gangster government, a political culture of corruption, greed, arrogance, violence and killings. In a nutshell, the game of politics and election into an office has become the surest way and quickest means to amass wealth. What we have in Nigeria is a mixture of satanic and cultic leadership. The Nigerian people are paying huge prize for this vicious and cultic leadership. The potentials, skills, talents, and destiny of Nigerian citizens are being wasted and lavished because of this evil and satanic leadership. We must change this trend; reverse this political culture, thinking and mentality in order to encourage intellectuals and other talented individuals to join public service that can truly transform Nigeria. However, I support Ndi-igbo quest for the 2015 presidency. Forty-six years is long enough for Ndi-igbo to saddle the mantle of leadership in Nigeria as president. All hands must support the desire and aspiration of the largest ethnic tribe of Nigeria to herald the affairs of Nigeria from the top. It is time for the Nigerian State to honor “The declaration for the end of the war slogan: “No Victor No Vanquished.” Even though, I do not believe in rotational presidency and power sharing, nevertheless, I believe it is a workable system for Nigeria because of its complex makeup. Ndi-igbo, on their own part must sincerely unite to fight for their well-deserved right to lead Nigeria. No power can be granted without a fight. The same for freedom! The quest for Igbo presidency in 2015 must become a reality, however; Ndi-igbo must unite against political saboteurs, traitors, cowards and selfish politicians. Ndi-igbo are one of the innovative tribes in Africa if not in the world along with their extended family in Israel, the Jewish people. But unlike the Jews, Ndi-igbo lack unity and cohesiveness. As I said many times, there is need and urgency for Ndi-igbo unity, which I believe is the most important remedy to end Southeast marginalization. Ndi-igbo must reach-out to their next door brothers and sisters namely – Niger Delta, Ijaw, Kalabari, Ndoki, Ogoni, Efik, Ibibio, Oron, Annag, Adoni, Boki, Eket, Anag, Bini, Isoko, Urohobo, etc., That’s the challenge for Ndi-igbo leadership today. And I don’t see anyone in position of leadership and authority making that move. Ndi-igbo can’t win the presidency being in disarray and divided. “A house divided can’t stand,” Jesus Christ said. Disunity is the bane of Igbo marginalization – not the Nigerian State, not even the Biafra war. There is strength in unity and unity produces great accomplishment. There is no substitute for unity. It is a prerequisite for group and sustained success. Unity has to be sought, taught and exemplified among Ndi-igbo. Unity is essential to achieve any meaningful success. Ndi-igbo must restore her dignity, respect, and value system. I would also like to advice Igbo men to humble themselves and give their women achievers the chance and opportunity to vie for the presidency in 2015. Ndi-igbo must understand that only one person can climb the ladder at a time. It will be impossible for 2, 5, or 10 people to become president at the same time. If Ndi-igbo miss the 2015 presidency, it would be 2050, according to my calculation that they can aspire for the coveted office again if the current rotation arrangement continues. So, all hands must be on deck to capture the 2015 presidency. At the same time, if President Jonathan makes up his mind to run again, a careful and wise decision must me made for the collective interest of Ndi-igbo. A Call for Courageous Leadership – Leadership is lacking. Nigeria is currently leaderless – No one really is in charge but Boko- Haram! Great leaders are born in times of conflicts and challenges. Great leaders demonstrate character and courage to deal with tough situations. We have not seen that in Nigeria lately. Nigeria is currently leaderless and there’s no one really in-charge, but Boko-Haram. No wonder, the murderous sect is having a field day and savages are looting the oil wealth. Corruption, lack of leadership and Boko-Haram are the greatest threats facing Nigeria today. Corruption is endemic in the fabric of our society and without godly courage, strength and character especially from those in position of power and authority; we would not be able to enjoy the freedom and dividends of democracy. The late President Yar’Adua styled himself as the servant leader that Nigeria desperately needs. A servant leader is a leader who works hard to provide for the needs of the people. Most Nigerians are not asking for luxury but basic necessities of life such as good and drivable roads, electricity, drinkable water, clinics, and hospitals and enabling environment in which they can tap into their God-given talents, skills and potential. I think that these basic things should be the top priorities for those elected in various positions of power and leadership in our country. Sadly, he’s gone, even though the 3-years of his presidency did not show his acclaimed servant-leadership model. President Jonathan likens himself a transformational leader. Transformational leadership is liberating leadership. Such a leader is a change leader. Unfortunately, Nigeria has not seen any change since he took office in May 2011. President Goodluck Jonathan and his deputies must rise to the challenges of leadership. Leaders must see in troubling times a testing ground for developing strength, faith and courage. Those in position of power and authority will always be confronted with crisis. Leadership challenge will occur where there is weak character and compromised leadership. Wise and strong leaders do not compromise. Strong leaders know how to face crisis and challenges with courage and wisdom. Conflict and challenges are inevitable in the life of a leader. Wise leaders handle conflict with care, courage and compassion. Great leaders never compromise but rather confront challenges, crisis, and conflicts with courage and strength. If crisis and conflict are not confronted, it will lead to chaos. Conflicts must be dealt with. Any leader who compromises with violence and crisis will succumb to it. Courage is one of the greatest ingredients of pure and great leadership. No one can become a great leader without strong character and godly courage. Godly and courageous leadership is the dire need of leaders of this century. The 21st century has been characterized as a century of chaos, conflict and challenges. Leading in the 21st century will require godly wisdom, divine strength, courage, and compassion to lead wisely and productively. Dr. Ekeke is a theologian, author, consultant, and leadership scholar. He is the president of Leadership Wisdom Institute. This article was culled from the African Herald Express as published on the April 22,2012.

Tuesday, 10 April 2012

Child sexual abuse, a hidden epidemic


500876_Find Your Health Plan 300x250Child sexual abuse is a hidden epidemic gradually eating deep into our society. Unfortunately, people hardly speak about it due to our culture and fear of stigmatisation. Children are sexually abused secretly, even by the people they love and depend on. This has brought about long-term emotional and psychological effects on these vulnerable children.
It is unfortunate that parents and guardians do not have enough information to help prevent this social canker from spreading. While at work, the lives of their children are entrusted into the hands of relatives, lesson teachers, swimming instructors, domestic staff and family friends who at one point or the other secretly abuse them. No parent will like to experience the effects of this epidemic which is sometimes permanent in the lives of children.
Recently, I had a talk on sexual abuse with some teenage girls in a boarding school where one of them told me her experience.
According to her, eight years ago when she was five years old, she went to spend the holidays with her grandmother who, one day, left her with the gateman they called Baba (Yoruba word for father). Before grandma returned, the gateman had abused the five-year old sexually.
And because he threatened to kill her, she did not report the issue to her grandmother when she returned. The man ended up sexually abusing her thrice before the end of her horrendous holiday. Even when she got home, the mother noticed that she was withdrawn, but she did not suspect what happened and it has been a secret that the girl has since kept from her relations.
Now 13, she said she still feels the pain in her heart, which makes her unable to socialise or make friends. And though the man passed away two years ago, she still experiences nightmares while the old man’s image keeps appearing in my imagination. You can imagine what children go through without getting help.
The World Health Organisation says one out of every three girls and one out of every six boys will have experienced one form of sexual abuse before attaining the age of 18. Perhaps that was why, in 1999, WHO declared child sexual abuse a public health epidemic; while in 2004, the world body declared it as a major factor fuelling HIV/AIDS and therefore declared it a silent epidemic.
Research shows that over 90 per cent of abusers are people the victim is familiar with. They are people the parents entrust their children to. Children look up to these categories of people for protection in one form or the other.
Sexual abusers could be male or female of any age, different socio-economic groups, ethnic classes, educated or illiterate, employed or unemployed, rich or poor. Unfortunately, it doesn’t show on the face! Adults who take delight in sexually abusing only children are called paedophiles.
Often, there are no clear external signs to show that a child has been sexually abused, and some signs can only be detected after physical examination by a physician. Although not all these signs could necessarily indicate that a child has been sexually assaulted, they may help parents or guardians to recognise the fact that something has gone wrong with their child.
The possibility of abuse should be investigated if a child shows a number of these symptoms or any of them to a certain degree: difficulty in walking or sitting, feeling pain while urinating or having bowel movement, vaginal tears, medical problems such as chronic itching, pain in the genitals, venereal diseases, aggressive behaviour toward family members, teachers, friends, etc.; always being isolated and withdrawn, depression, loss of appetite, insomnia, compulsive eating, showing unusual fear of a certain place or persons, etc. The list is endless.
If a sexually abused child does not undergo proper counselling and rehabilitation, he or she will definitely experience short and long term effects.
The impact of sexual abuse on children can be overwhelming and long-lasting. Since the abused child would have been offended by someone s/he should be able to trust and depend on, they may not comprehend the fact that the abuse was wrong and not their fault.
Sexually-abused children usually feel that something is wrong with them and that the abuse that took place was their fault.
Worse still, parents tend to disbelieve when their children tell them of an abuse. This usually leaves devastating effects on them. Consequently, the victims may feel embarrassed, isolated, guilty, ashamed, and powerless. The effects of sexual abuse are powerful and usually come to the fore later in life.
Prevention is better than cure, so says the adage. Parents do not have to wait until the deed is done before looking for preventive measures. Every child is at risk of being sexually abused and everything must be done to prevent it.
Knowledge is power. Experts advise that parents should start teaching their children sex education from age three. However, many parents do not even know what to say to their children. I’ll advise that you get books and other materials that will give you more information on sex education. If you don’t teach them, someone else will, and it’s very much likely to be the wrong information.
Also, parents must teach their children that their bodies belong to them and they have the right to decide what they do with their bodies, and who they allow to touch them.
Children should be taught to value their bodies by teaching them to also respect other people’s body. Adults should also respect children’s wishes. Let them know that no one has the right to touch any child without her permission. Do not force your child to hug or kiss any relative if he or she doesn’t want to. Allow them to reject such gestures politely.
-Akindolie is the Founder/Project Coordinator, Christianah Fate Foundation, which advocates the prevention of child sexual abuse. website http://www.christianahfatefoundation.org

Sunday, 8 April 2012

Olumhense: ‘Awuf’ No Be Bribe, I Swear!

IT is pretty easy for me to understand why President Goodluck Jonathan seems unable to comprehend the uproar over the church donation made to him by the Italian company known in Nigeria as Gitto. Remember, it is only a church, a place of worship. In the view of Mr. Jonathan and many other Nigerians: how can that be a bribe? The general argument sounds like this: If he did not take money, where is the bribe and where is the harm? To make the situation even clearer, such Nigerians would argue, Gitto never said it was a bribe, did they? By mid-last week, Mr. Jonathan’s troubled spokesman, Reuben Abati, offered the “clarification” that Gitto gave the 2,500-seater church gift as a “corporate social responsibility.” Predictably, that turned out to be the fuel in the flame. In my view, this matter is considerably simpler. Mr. Jonathan is a very simple man. He does not speak a lot of English. I conceive of him as a man who equipped himself of the language no more than he needed to travel to Lagos. That he earned a Ph.D degree is a mystery. Perhaps it was in that simplicity of language, which comes across when he speaks, that he announced that Gitto donated the church to him. And he was right. After all, Otuoke is one of Nigeria’s smallest villages, and without presidential intervention, who would have remembered his people. So, Jonathan thought he was just expressing his gratitude for a favour. That may not mean he had read the law. As a nice man himself, Mr. Jonathan must have done a few favours to others in his time. I remember one, in December 2010. That was the month that Pastor Tunde Bakare and his Save Nigeria Group (SNG) visited Aso Rock. On their way home, they were given a parting gift of $50,000, which the group, convinced it was a bribe, returned. State house was aghast. “A bribe?” they asked, dizzy with disdain. Whoever said it was a bribe? Of course, that was only “Transport Fare,” they told SNG. As busy as he was, Mr. Jonathan must have taken the time to wonder how people as educated and eloquent as his SNG guests could have mistaken a mere $50,000 Transport Fare so much for a bribe they decided to return it. Did they not know of the N10 million “Transport Fare” that Ibrahim Badamasi Babangida gave to visiting journalists at his Minna hideout only weeks before? The truth is that people in the corridors of power and privilege in Nigeria understand this culture very well, and they are horrified when someone starts to quote the law. To them, how can it be wrong when the wife of a powerful man goes abroad and spends in the hundreds of thousands of dollars in one store, some of it given as lavish gifts by contractors seeking appointments with her husband? How can it be wrong when a man in power takes gifts given to him in appreciation of the wonderful work he is doing? Well, in 2006, I recall that the man who is now President of Nigeria was indicted for false declaration of assets by a Joint Task Force (JTF) on corruption that was set up by the government. That powerful panel was headed by Nuhu Ribadu in his capacity as the chairman of the Economic and Financial Crimes Commission. Mr. Jonathan’s crimes, the JTF said, included possession of illegally-acquired property such as homes and exotic cars he could not explain within his legitimate income (he had testified he bought them from his “savings”). Some of the properties involved were listed as: a seven-bedroom duplex worth N18 million at Otuke Ogbia LGA acquired in 2001; a four-bedroom duplex, valued at N15 million at Goodluck Jonathan Street, Yenegoa, acquired in 2003; and a five-bedroom duplex, at Citec Villas, Gwarimpa II – Abuja, valued at N25 million, also acquired in 2003. There were also two cars: a Lexus Jeep valued at N18 million; and a BMW 7351 Series worth N5.5 million. I am sure that Mr. Jonathan must have been surprised at that time when he was told he was going to be facing the Code of Conduct Bureau because bribes violated the law. “Ehen?” he must have exclaimed, “I am telling you they were gifts, not bribes! I will never accept bribes!!” To be fair, he was not the only big man whose name was dragged around in the mud by that panel. There were 14 other governors, including the current leader of the Action Congress of Nigeria, Bola Tinubu, who was indicted for operating at least six foreign accounts in his name, his wife’s, one Zainab Abisola Tinubu, and in the name of Compass Finance and Investment Ltd. As is the case with Nigeria, however, we are discussing the Otuoke Church question today because all of those charges were practically dismissed on the way to the court. Paradoxically, Jonathan himself was rewarded by the same Obasanjo with a spot on Umaru Yar’Adua’s presidential ticket. I have to presume he gave back all those bribes…I mean, gifts, to Jonathan. When you think about it, this kind of understanding must be behind Jonathan’s dismissal of the monumental corruption cases, reports, allegations and petitions that date from Halliburton down. And when you think about it, Mr. Jonathan would be perfectly right: how do you justify prosecuting others who received gifts just because Nigerians think they were bribes? Let us also remember that in 2011, we experienced all those startling revelations from Wikileaks about the desperate depths to which the Nigerian state had sunk not only through corruption, but also outright treason by top officials who were giving away our country’s deepest secrets? Did Jonathan pursue the investigation or prosecution of anyone? How could he, since he was also reported to have sprawled out on the American ambassador’s confessional more than once. It was just “beer-parlour gossip,” he said dismissing the corruption charges. That is all by way of background to Gitto. It has become perfectly normal for men in power in Nigeria to take as it is to receive. They budget for themselves and for those around them. They solicit, and they collect. There is no difference between the coffers of the state and theirs; just as there is no difference between what is possessed by contractors and what they desire. There is no illegality, only power and privilege. Does anyone remember the Petroleum Development Trust Fund wars between Obasanjo and his VP, Atiku Abubakar, and the way Obasanjo splashed the funds around as he pleased? The import is that when our rulers violate the law, it is no violation; it is anywhere between “beer-parlour gossip” and corporate social responsibility. The track record of our so-called anti-corruption agencies provides easy proof that, in Nigeria, the law is a strong respecter of persons. This monster is a yawning ethical and legal vacuum. It is not against the law if Oga Patapata takes another man’s wife, it is a blessing. It is not 419 if the crook is the governor, it is government at work. It is not a bribe if the President receives it, it is corporate social responsibility. This is why, although Nuhu Ribadu confessed that Obasanjo was far more corrupt than the vilified Sani Abacha, he has never been invited by anyone to answer a question about anything. In Nigeria, the law is an irritating irrelevance contempt, as weak and insincere leadership nourishes the impunity that ravages our soul. Transformation, aaahhh! This article was written by Olumhense on The Guardian Newspaper of the 8th of April, 2012. His email is below. sonala.olumhense@gmail.com

Thursday, 22 March 2012

2012 London Olympics:Here comes Naija again

Delhi 2010 has come and gone but nevertheless the lessons from it leaves every well meaning Nigerian no option than to revisit it and this time around, perhaps draw one or two experiences from there.

The first gold of the competition came to our beloved Nigerian golden girl Augustina Nwaokolo and that opened the door to a long haul of medals of different colors up until the sledge hammer of drug testing started hitting us with impunity and smearing us with the oil of shame. Medals were withdrawn, shame and disrespect replaced honor and integrity, silence became a weather we can no longer refuse but what have we learnt from it ?

A couple of months away from now another competition bigger than the Delhi Commonwealth games will be held in London( 2012 London Olympics), as usual Nigeria will be competing and the feelings and expectations are high but how well are we prepared before placing such high expectations before our athletes and coaches
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Innocent Egbunike one of the Nigerian sporting heroes is one of the chief Coaches and I know given him the necessary support, he will pull together a strong team that will represent us although one needs to mention that, given the little or no time to prepare well, our expectations might as well fade away quickly before our eyes. Yusuf Ali a former great athlete and a former President of AFN Mr.Ngerem were of the same opinion but expressed hope with Mr. Egbunike being at the helm of affairs.

It was less than five months to the competition when he took over as the head coach. Although a familiar person with the Nigeria athletics environment having involved in one way or another before now, Mr Egbunike should pay particular attention to the build up of the athletes and make sure that they are consistent with the food and drugs that are necessary for good health and not the ones that will bring shame and agony to all of us.

They must all be tested and monitored up till the last week of the competition to make sure we do not waste our time and energy on the wrong surface or allow foreign based athletes to join the camp without appropriate testing.

The athletes focus now should be on honor and integrity like the heroes of the past and stay clear of any pollutant that might make them unclean. No matter what people say, we still have examples of past dedicated athletes of high repute with international standards. The likes of Chidi Imoh,Mary Onyali, Faliliat Ogunkoya, Innocent Egbunike, the late Sunday Obada,Sunday Uti and many more are good examples of die hard patriotic and self disciplined athletes who worked hard to bring honor and fame to Nigerians and their families.

256534_Save More With Colorations At DiscountSchoolSupply.com! Click Here!The experience we had in Delhi may leave an indelible mark on us if we do not have a change of altitude and character to create a new image that would make the international sporting world see us again as a hard working top rated sporting nation that we really are.

This call is not limited to athletics alone but to all athletes in other fields, not forgetting great fields like weight lighting, taekwondo and boxing where we have history of achievements.
Remember Peter Konyegwachi and recently Chika Chukwumerijie, so we can do it, we do not need drug to do it, all we need is determination, skills and focus so to speak and the result will be positive.

We have got internationally exposed coaches and of recent the likes of Innocent Egbunike and Dr.Daniel Igali have joined the team. What more could we ask for again, its now left for our determined athletes to prove to the world that once more we can do it, the Okagberes, Omawunmis,Oghenes, and many other star studded athletes, Nigeria is waiting for you.

It is my strong believe that our notable athletes will shine and make us proud come summer 2012 in London and what they actually need is the support from Nigerians, AFN, Sports Ministry and sport lovers in diaspora.

Go there and enjoy the tournament and put your names on the sands of time and encourage one another while making sure that 2012 Olympics will give Nigeria a better name than 2008 Beijing and Delhi 2010.